Aimee O'Connor with father, Bill O'Connor
Aimee O’Connor
obituary
The obituary for
Aimee Jo O’Connor, written by her father, retired BJ columnist and feature
writer Bill O’Connor:
Aimee Jo O'Connor, 54, of Stow, died Jan. 8.
She was a nurse who worked with those afflicted with covid. The disease killed
her.
Aimee
was born in Havre, Mt. on Sept. 21, 1966, the daughter of William T. and
Jacquelyne Tarr O'Connor.
When Aimee was in elementary school, the
family moved to Ohio. After high school and post-secondary education, she
worked for a while as a business executive, but was restless there. She then
discovered her true vocation and became a nurse.
For Aimee, nursing was, indeed, a
vocation - a calling. When growing up she greatly enjoyed the TV series, MASH, and
taped and replayed episodes. The characters worked in an army field hospital
treating wounded and dying soldiers.
Aimee ended up doing much the same
thing and would smile at the irony. She cared deeply for her patients and did
not flinch in the face of the constant danger health-care workers face.
When she was a child, a teacher asked
students to select a poem that reflected what they wanted to do in life. She
chose these lines from Emily Dickenson:
If I can stop one heart from
breaking,
I shall not live in vain;
If I can ease one life from aching,
Or cool one pain,
Or help one fainting robin
Unto his nest again,
I shall not live in vain.
Since her death, we have received well
over a hundred condolences and heart-felt remembrances from patients, former
patients, and colleagues in her profession. Her hope was that we, as a country,
finally will receive the enlightened national leadership needed to use all our
resources to battle this horrific enemy.
Aimee was preceded in death by her
paternal grandparents, William and Ruth O'Connor, and her maternal grandfather,
Jack Tarr.
She is survived by her parents, her brothers,
William and Loren (Tonia), her sister, Rebecca, her maternal grandmother,
Geraldine Tarr, many nieces and nephews, especially Cheryl, Michelle, Zachary,
Ryan, Nathan and Madeline, and her co-workers at Kent Altercare, who were
like family.
Because of the plague, there will be no
services. Cremation has taken place at Bissler & Sons Funeral Home, Kent.
At a later time, there will be a celebration of Aimee's life.
Our daughter was a hero. She did not die
in vain.